i dont like kissing

I don't like kissing. I hate how it sounds, and I hate how it feels.I don't like to kiss and/or be sexually touched. Can anyone relate? I don't like to kiss and/or be sexually touched. Can anyone relate? People keep doing those things all the time, and then they're talking about how amazing they feel. In addition, the Internet is full of these articles: "How to become a great kisser", "How to touch your wife to be in the mood" etc... All this doesn't make sense to me. From my perspective, kissing is rare and boring and leaves wet stains disturbing around my lips and chin. Besides, any kind of touching or tickling, it hurts or just feels irritating to me. I don't understand why others like to be caught (in sexual contexts), for example. I don't even like it if someone caresses my head. Hugging is usually an exception to this, however, it feels good to embrace someone I care about. I have been told that this is something that disappears with time and experience. Now I have experience of some relationships, and the intimate part is just as difficult for the 20I as it was a teenager. My partners have been very surprised and disappointed - How can someone not enjoy these things and wake up? So I've decided it's better for me to stay alone. Sometimes I feel bad about it, it's like I'm missing something great that everyone else seems to enjoy so much. I'm so sorry to hear about your bad experiences. Although that has definitely been a very important realization since you are now more aware of what is good for you and what is not. I hope other people respect their limits too. Besides, please don't be too hard on yourself! You just did what you really thought was right. Thanks also for this comment, it was open. I've also forced myself into intimate contact so many times and it hasn't been good for me. I've always thought it's just a rule and I have to go for it if I want to maintain a relationship. Fortunately I'm no longer in a relationship, that intimate part caused too many problems and sensory overload. That's better. Penelope Trunk wrote about this a while ago Thank you! I'll read this asap :D Thank you, a lot of food to think about there! It may also be in the spectre of gray sexuality :) This is also something I have thought about! I've never been completely sure if it's about Aspergers or asexuality. Maybe they're both affecting this at some level or just not like sex. I feel very little sexually, preferring to tolerate it for the good of others. The kiss is too close for comfort (although I still do). The biggest thing is to rub, though. It feels like hunting and hurts even if you're soft. I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one with this. Kissing's weird. It's true! It has never felt "natural" to me :DI I am the same one that I love hugs, but anything else that I really don't like much especially when someone tries to kiss me. Yes! I think the hugs are pleasant because the type pressure of "spreads" on the body and therefore the touch does not feel so hard (in contrast to specifically touching a part of the body, when all the pressure focuses on that particular area - it feels uncomfortable). In addition, hugs are warm, and you don't have to make eye contact:I'm not exactly sure how I could help...im no OP but I have aspergers (and some other things*) and wondering... how is the link (admittedly very humorous) intended to interpret? Is it a metaphor for something? Are you saying someone should do something? let me say... mechanic?*tourettes, ocd, adhd I had trouble kissing for long periods of time because I was afraid of not breathing. I think the more I took time with him, the better I felt kissing in a way. It can disappear with time and experience, or not. I hope you find a partner who will work with you on how to feel more comfortable, or better still help you accept that what you feel is fine and doesn't make you feel bad about it. I'm glad to hear you've figured out how to enjoy kissing! :) Yes, my previous partners didn't understand this, they usually ignored this quality of mine and then got angry if I didn't kiss them or play them regularly. If you would start dating again, you should be with a person who actually understands and accepts this kind of sensitivity. MembersOnline

Um, what about these people who hate to kiss? Did you know that about 50 percent of people prefer not to kiss? Did you know that about 50 percent of people prefer not to kiss? Hmm. How do I start this? Let's start with a woman who used to know who, because she was old enough to kiss, she absolutely hated him. Since I'm someone who's the opposite, I never came from where I came from, especially since, once she started having sex, she was about to do that. At first, I thought that this unicorn of the rainbow felt like this because perhaps her first experience was (according to her, she did not). My next thought—and forgive me for becoming dark for a moment—was, because we're both survivors of sexual abuse, maybe the childhood trauma related to PTSD had something to do with it. It's pretty. She said it wasn't that either. According to her, "he mocks me is not mine." But how could that be? For several years, I tilted it to be an intimate anomaly and (treated to) let it go. But while I was getting people out of porn and out of porn, while I was the director of the teenage mother for the local branch of a national non-profit organization and also since I became a , for my surprise-frontier-shock, I've met many people who are like the woman I just mentioned. Although it is the copulation and all the fun that comes along with it, and also while many of them are in quite functional relationships, if there is one thing they can do totally and without being able to do it, it is K-I-S-S-I-N-G. Really? In the effort to find out what this semi-subterranean movement is all about, I decided to do some research. I will share with you what I discovered (through some research and some "please leave my name out of it" interviews). But if you're someone who also hates to kiss, or you're in a relationship with someone who feels like that... I would like to hear your thoughts (in the comment section) about this, what I considered to be, really stratified and surprising phenomenon too. Besar is Dope... isn't he? From my observation, every time we sit down to remember our first kiss, it usually comes with two stories. There's the kiss you got when you were probably in primary school and nobody knew what the hell they were doing. Then there is, somewhere in the high school kiss, that has the potential to make or break your feelings (at least at that time). My first was this blond white boy who lined up all the girls in their first grade class along a fence and kissed us. Whatever. My second was the black man, who basically thought it was God's gift to women, who kissed me against a tree. It was horrible. Man, if you could imagine how a dish feels in the rinse cycle of a dishwasher, that kiss would nail you (it was also a complete ass later, but that's another story for another time). I could really have ruined kissing for me, but I think because I was always a curious person when it was almost all sexually related things, so I didn't give up. It's like when I think back to my personal choice for the first time (because again, I was sexually abused, so my first sexual experiences weren't my choice). It wasn't super bad or super big, but I kept it because, so I saw in the movies and heard from others, there had to be more sex than I had experienced. That doesn't mean that, if I choose to think very hard, I don't understand that it might be a little disgusting too. To begin with, our mouths are the most dirty parts of our body. Also, let's not act as if we were not literally "swapping spit" with another individual every time we do (ironicly, drool is one of the words that makes me drag the skin). And if you and your kissing partner are not synchronized, it's almost as if you prefer to clean a toilet to continue. But since, for me, good kisses far outweigh the bad ones, I've never come to the point where I'm not down to do it. I mean, getting to that kind of resolution is crazy... Right? According to what I've learned on the internet, actually... It's not. I read about kissing, for example. Instead, they chose the alternative known as the ocean kiss. Did you hear about that? It's when two people stand very close to each other's faces and breathe deeply without allowing their mouths to touch (I don't know if that's sexy or infuriating, to tell you the truth). Do any culture really enjoy kissing? Actually, yes. According to the study, Indonesia, Spain and South Africa kissed a lot, although PDA is largely unseen. Anyway, since 45 percent of Americans are good without kissing and I'm actually American, I decided to see what else I could know about how people feel about kissing on this side of the world. You can always count on a Reddit thread to provide some interesting ideas. In the thread "", I read a little about women who loved or hated kissing based on how they felt about their partner at that time, along with women who enjoyed contact with their lips but wanted to keep their tongues out of it and, women who, although they cannot put their finger on it, are aggravated by kisses. That made me want to ask some people even closer to home about their thoughts. It was intriguing to say the least. I've included your perspective on why they prefer not to kiss down. (Most of their names have been changed, mainly because some of their partners do not know what they decided to share with us.) 5 people share why they hate kissing Melissa. Married. 29. "Do you know how people talk about 'faking it' when it comes to orgasms? I don't know what it is, but as long as I would never do that, I fake it all the time with my husband when it comes to kissing. I like her lips a lot, but her tongue always feels uncomfortable. Like a lizard who's trying to tie me in and out of my mouth. Not that I'm a bad kisser... Well, I don't know because I never liked it. I always feel like it's a waste of time. Can we go on with that, please? Yeah, I never told her that, so you definitely don't use my real name. "Jackson, single. 35. "If you've ever been told that boys can have sex with a woman and never kiss her, they've told you the truth. I've spent a lot of time trying to figure out what's going on with it. I think it's because we can put a condom on our dick. When you kiss, you're out there... exposed. It's vulnerable and intimate and many of us don't want to be that with anyone. To me, kissing means I really like you. Sometimes sex is just a liberation. That's why I wouldn't really say "I hate to kiss" as much as I've had more sex without kissing than with him. If I want to lie down, I don't need to kiss. If I want to be around someone, I'll kiss her. Some may be triggered by that, but many boys feel exactly the same." Eric, single. 25. "Yes, I'm not a kissing fan. Especially because many women are assuming they can kiss. I like to kiss for a whole woman. I like to head. But the mouths always felt wet and weird to me. He really hasn't stopped anything that he wanted to happen so, I don't give him any idea."Taylor. Single. 27. "It's not necessarily that I think kissing is unpleasant. For me, it's all about chemistry. There are some people I enjoy kissing, but it's weird. It's only been two so far. I liked them the way their mouth felt with my mouth. It wasn't too aggressive. It wasn't too soft either. I don't know how to explain it. He felt... good. Besar upset [me] because... I have to go to the same pace and when I can't match you, I don't feel that. Besides, I don't see the kissing point and that's all. " Tanya. Divorced. 41. "I hate to kiss because, it's just nasty. Say what you want, but all that spit is disgusting. I don't know why people think it's okay to have a preference when it comes to sexual positions or erogenous areas, but if someone doesn't like to kiss, somehow, they're breaking some kind of cardinal sex rule. Believe it or not, yes, you can be very intimate with someone without his tongue being dragged down your throat. The ducks are fine. Languages are not. Many of my partners have felt the same. There's definitely more of us 'no-chisers' around what you might think, girl." Tanya's right. There are clearly many people who have active sexual lives that are well without kissing, thank you very much. And while the reasons certainly run the range, I will be the first to say that posture is common enough that it should no longer be seen or treated as "odd" or "foreign," including by me. At the end of the day, like everything related to sex and intimacy, kissing is a preference, not a requirement or a given. And a lot of people are fine with that. Complete stop, chile. Complete stop. 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